[Review] The Understory: An Invitation to Rootedness and Resilience from the Forest Floor by Lore Ferguson Wilbert

Publisher and Publication Date: Brazos Press-Baker Publishing Group. May 21, 2024.
Genre: Christian Nonfiction.
Pages: 235 printed pages.
Format: 1. E-Book. 2. Purchased paperback copy from Amazon. The paperback is 5 x 7 which is slightly smaller than most standard paperbacks.
Source: NetGalley E-Book. From Amazon, a Paperback edition.
Rating: Very good.

Thank you to NetGalley for the first (incomplete version) of the reading of this book. The second reading is through a purchased paperback copy.

Link at the publisher for more information: Baker Publishing Group.

Links to purchase the book: Barnes and Noble/ Audible/ Amazon paperback/ Walmart/ Christian Book/ Bookshop.

Info About the Author:

To read Lore Ferguson Wilbert’s bio @ Baker Publishing Group.

Social media links: Website/ Facebook/ Instagram/ Substack.

The sections and chapters:

Part 1: Seen
Here Is Loss: Invitation
Here Is Here: Space
Here Is Truth: Land
Part 2: Unseen
Here Is Hurt: Soil
Here Is Grief: Forest Litter
Here Is Time: Lichen
Here Is Protection: Nursemaids
Part 3: Revealed
Here Is Emergence: Weeds
Here Is Resilience: Mycelia
Here Is Movement: Forest

Summary:

The Understory is a unique blend of merging the environment of a forest and the Christian life. A large part of The Understory is it’s also a memoir of life experiences in Wilbert’s childhood, young adult life, and in the Church.

Wilbert examines and compares soil, lichen, and seeds to the current Christian landscape.

Some examples of themes: grieving, mistrust, broken relationships, trauma, hurt, recreating, resilience, peace, conflict, politics, freedom to express, conformity versus uniformity, and the complexity of life.

My Thoughts:

I pre-ordered the paperback edition in early March. It should have arrived on the publication date from Amazon on May 21. It did not. I was sent a message it would be delivered on May 25. It did not arrive. I got another message that it would arrive May 26. It did.

Meanwhile, Wilbert sent me a link to NetGalley in early May to read the E-Book edition for review. I read the book and thought it was a short read and felt there was a problem. I thought to ask Wilbert how many pages are in the book. The E-Book was about 100 pages shy of the paperback edition. She shared several other readers had the same problem. She asked if I could delete that version and reload it again. I decided to wait for the official published paperback copy to arrive-and of course that was late. So, essentially, I’ve read the book twice (well, the first time was half.)

If I had only reviewed the book based on what I’d read in the E-Book edition, I would have missed out on a full book with wonderful writing material. To review a partially completed book would have been dishonest on my part. I cannot do that. I don’t understand why NetGalley publishes E-Books to be read that are in this shape. I’ve heard from other reader-reviewers that this has happened to them with other books. Is this legal? To release a book for reading that is not complete. How can a reviewer read a book that is not ready for publishing? I am mentioning this in this review that appears only on my blog, as I see that this is a big problem! And this will probably be the last time I use NetGalley. I don’t trust them.

I admire people who are willing and courageous to write about the hard parts of their lives. No person has a perfect life. But a writer who publishes a book revealing the underlayer of their lives, and this includes traumatic events, is courageous and it must feel exposing. This is the first reason why I love The Understory, Lore Ferguson Wilbert is willing to be transparent about her life, especially in regard to her feelings about the current culture and politics in the Church, because the Church is not in unity about all issues.

Overall, I love The Understory. It is a book that will not appeal to all readers because they will not want to read views and beliefs outside of their own. I feel The Understory is a book that will appeal to a certain audience.

Who is the audience?
1. People who are eclectic in reading and don’t mind opinions outside their own about politics.
2. People who lean towards moderate or liberal views.

What I love about The Understory:

1. The quotes shared in the book by different authors and poets. Some examples are St. John of Damascus, John Muir, Madeleine L’Engle, Mary Oliver, Wendell Berry, Walt Whitman, Gerard Manley Hopkins, Henry David Thoreau, William Bradford, Elizabeth Barrett Browning, and Richard Powers.
I collect quotes. I love reading quotes in books. I feel Wilbert is well-read and an exploratory reader because of the lengthy list of people she includes in the book. I love this.
2. Wilbert is transparent in her writing. Her writing style is relaxed and personable. She is in conversation with the reader. At times it comes across as stream of consciousness writing.
3. The narrative writing style pauses for teachings on the ecosystem of the forest, or a hiking and kayak experience. This gives a break or pause from the serious.
4. Wilbert during the writing of this book is wrestling with some things in her life. The reader journeys with her.
5. I agree with her about telling the truth. As a writer it is important to tell the truth.
6. The Understory is a book of kindness and compassion for those who have experienced Church trauma (Post Traumatic Church Disorder), an abusive childhood, and the ending of friendships.

Further Thoughts:

  1. On page 67, “There is a saying that ‘humility is living in the truth,’ and I believe this with all my heart.” I disagree. Humility is thinking of self, less.
  2. She mentions she had placed faith and looked up to those in leadership at the church, and they fell by sinning or treating her harshly. I recently learned people tend to idolize. I am guilty of it. When the focus and esteem is so elevated for another human being, that is idol worship. When I realized that I’d done this most of my life I felt a pinch in my heart. No person is perfect and worthy of being elevated above God. There are pastors and leaders in churches who have done wrong. If they have broken the law, they should be held accountable. But I believe one of the reasons church members fall into a naive pattern of thought is because they hold such a high admiration and esteem for those who are just as capable of sin as everyone. To be naive obscures the vision. And when the vision is obscured, Satan devours. Set limits and guidelines with all church members. Hold people accountable.
    I speak candidly. I held a couple of leadership roles in a Baptist church for several years. I had conversations and meetings with people that profess to be a Christian, yet they were not in behavior. I was given information about previous members and current members that were horrifying. The information, yes. But how it was “not” handled but swept under a rug that created a dirt pile that does not go away on its own. It tends to stink after a while. It causes an oppression of filth.
    And then there are church members who do not want to appropriately deal with the problem at the time of occurrence. They want to keep it contained. Keep it hush. They come across as “if we don’t talk about it that will make things better.” But years later they feel guilt and talk about it in a confession of sorts during a Bible study class.
    My experience above happened in the years right before the COVID lockdown. This church shut its doors and reopened later in 2020 as an outreach center for the community. The church had been dying a slow death for decades. New pastors with new ideas did not help. These ideas did not help because the real problem is pride. Pride is a sultry steamy thing.
    3. A couple of moments while reading the book I cried. I cried during Wilbert’s sharing of her experiences of grief. I love her point on page 119. “I must make peace with the reality that no matter how much time passes, some things will never be resurrected…Some things will never be the same again.”
    A great friend told me once, “Annette, there are some things that take a lifetime to work through.” I agree.
    4. There is a point in the book when she expresses an opinion about Republicans. I know Republicans who are not conservative on all issues. I know Democrats who are not liberal on all issues. There are all kinds of people, and this includes in the political parties.

Book Spotlight: Reaching a Child’s Heart by Juan and Jeanine Sanchez

In Reaching a Child’s Heart, Juan and Jeanine Sanchez encourage parents from their gospel-shaped perspective that children don’t need perfect parents—they need a perfect Savior. 
Raising children can feel overwhelming as you try to navigate the many voices telling you what to do and not to do, but God has already given you everything you need to be faithful parents! Even though you may be exhausted and discouraged, take heart from the simple, biblical principles shared by Juan and Jeanine Sanchez that will point you to Jesus as your guide and helper as you seek to shepherd your children through every age and stage of growth.
As they share their own journey of parenting five children, the authors highlight the importance of a team-based approach of parenting together. They emphasize focusing on children’s hearts, rather than behavior modification, and illustrate how daily faithfulness in the routine cares of life is never a waste of time. A down-to-earth, practical guide for parents that will help them move from survival mode to joyful, Christ-dependent parenting. Parents will learn biblical principles for parenting, including practical examples of parenting through different ages and stages. Includes questions for reflection for individual use or group discussion.
Reaching Your Child’s Heart: A Practical Guide to Faithful Parenting by Juan and Jeanine Sanchez.
Published by New Growth Press. Publication Date: May 6, 2024.
224 pages.
Currently $11.99 for the paperback @ New Growth Press. On this day’s posting, this is the best over-all price.
Link to the book @ Amazon/ Christian Book.

About the Authors:

Juan Sanchez, MDiv, ThM, PhD, serves as senior pastor of High Pointe Baptist Church in Austin, TX and is a council member of The Gospel Coalition, cofounder and president of Coalición, and an associate professor of theology at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. He has authored numerous books, including 1 Peter for You and The Leadership Formula

Jeanine Sanchez teaches English and writing to children and teaches the Bible to women. When not in the classroom, Jeanine enjoys reading, hospitality, watching Florida football, and spending time with her adult children and her grandchildren. 

Juan and Jeanine have been married over thirty years and have five adult daughters. 

[Review] Teatime Discipleship: Sharing Faith One Cup at a Time by Sally Clarkson

Publisher and Publication Date: Harvest House Publishers. 2023.
Genre: Christian nonfiction. Recipes. Christian living.
Pages: 208.
Format: Hardcover.
Source: Self-purchase.
Rating: Excellent.

The Bible text used in this book is New American Standard Bible. Copyright by the Lockman Foundation.

Link @ Amazon.
I am not an affiliate.

Website for Sally Clarkson. Sally has a blog, podcast, and other social media to follow.
Instagram/ Facebook/ Pinterest/ YouTube/ Twitter.

Sally is a mentor, author, podcaster, friend, encourager, influencer, and inspiration to so many women of all ages. From what I understand, she is especially well-known to young women who are single, wives, or mothers.

Recently I watched one of my favorite YouTube channels, Farmhouse on Boone. On one of the episodes, Sally Clarkson was interviewed.

Summary:

A motivation behind the writing of Teatime Discipleship is so the reader will be encouraged to at least in part invite others into Christian fellowship. The time together can be something simple like meeting somewhere for coffee or possibly inviting someone into the home for a baked sweet and hot drink. The focus is in building a relationship.

We live in a culture and society where so many people are lonely for a real relationship. And yet, people are timid about taking a step forward in asking someone to coffee or tea.

People are not only timid, but it appears that people do not know how to befriend someone. They do not know how to cultivate and enrich a friendship nor how to take a first step. Sally is a perfect teacher.

My Thoughts:

I’d had my eyes on this book several months before purchasing it at Christmas.

Teatime Discipleship is one of those books that is a goldmine of beautiful truths to pour over and savor. I thought it was a book about tea and hospitality along with Sally’s wise quotes. But it is so much more!

Several reasons why I adore this book!

  1. Recipes are included.
  2. Tea instruction and education.
  3. Sally shares from her life. So, this book is in part a memoir of certain memories. For example: being lonely as a young mother, learning to build relationships, people who helped her in life, and living a life of legacy.
  4. I love a surprise teaching in learning to accept ourselves. In this section, we are also reminded to see past those things that bug us about other people and have compassion for them. This section is one of my favorites in the book. It is so important that I have gone back and reread it several times. The title of the chapter is “Loving Your People Well.”
  5. I love her reminder of living in the dependence and power of the Holy Spirit.
  6. I love this quote on page 128. “Discipling others is not about authority, great faith, appearance, or deep knowledge. It is about being faithful to serve-available to God and willing to learn right where we are.”
  7. My dad had several wise sayings that he told me. One of them was, “keep on keeping on.” And this reminds me of something Sally says in her section on legacy. On page 135. “A determination to keep going, keep seeking, keep trusting, keep moving ahead by faith, don’t let burdens crush us.” God is teaching us to depend on Him, and not on what is going on around us.
  8. Teatime Discipleship is a book that is read cover to cover and then reread. It is read for insight. It is read for encouragement and comfort. It is read to gain Christian wisdom.
  9. Teatime Discipleship is a visually appealing book. The pages are thick. Color photographs are throughout. The page layouts have a look of a personal scrapbook. Some of the pictures are nature scenes. Some are of Sally or family. Some scenes are still life. For example, a tea tray, food, or flowers. The print is bold black ink and easy to read.